Unapologetically sharing your gifts and being authentically YOU starts within and with your immediate relationship.
I’ve been coaching my conscious leader clients for 15+ years and relationships are part of nearly every client’s story. Having studied communication as major in high school and being a highly intuitive connector who loves deep connections and understanding, relating has always been an area of high interest for me.
Jonny and I have been together and married for 10 years + now. Not always harmoniously, no far from it, as we’ve been through a lot together. However, always consciously, with a deep underlying love and awareness of giving each other space and the support to be who we truly are.
I’m now going to share three pillars with you that I see as the cornerstones for a loving, long-lasting conscious relationship. Without these, relationships usually start crumbling and falling apart real easily, distracting you from contributing your gifts and making a bigger positive impact. And if you’re reading this, I bet you’re trying to avoid this!
So here we go ….
I’ve just had this little something come up in my life last week. I’ve had an old pattern revisit me. And this pattern is around overwhelm and stress. I’ve been having an amazing, amazing time of uplevelling in the last few months in my life and business. So much amazingness has happened, that it’s all been quite fast.
And I knew that I needed and wanted to get straight back into the flow and into myself and connecting properly with my spirit. Because that is the place from where I have learned I feel the best; that is where I feel amazing, and that is where I feel that I shine and really share my gifts, and really help people the best. So I …..
A client once asked me a very good question: "Why do we need to ground and connect with the earth, when we want to connect with Spirit (which is supposedly up above)?"
I thought it would be worthwhile sharing my reply, as this is what comes up a lot for people. You might not be aware of this, but most people are either way too much in their head or even off with the fairies (or 'worry-train' respectively).
Find out why it is so important for us human beings to connect to the ground and with the earth. Learn about the danger that you unknowingly expose yourself to when you are too much in your head and not in your body. And find out the single one reason how you could make a huge difference in the world!
You know those days when you feel like whatever you say gets spun around. You feel entirely misunderstood and confused. People seem to retract, get angry at you or shut down in response to what you're saying. Most likely you feel like you can't say anything 'right' and you assume that it's most likely best to not say anything at all. Can you relate?
Did you know that there is a way to get your point across - without getting angry, sad, feisty, defensive or accusative? A way that gets received, where the other one actually listens and cares?
Do you feel like you’ve been non-stop running? Getting stuff ticked off the list, preparing, looking after others, packing away, making sure everyone is happy and content? Your head feels almost detached from your body as you keep on holding it high, worry, think, organize and frown..? ‘As long as everyone is being looked after.’..
I’d like to share 4 simple ways to centre & ground yourself with you today that can bring you instant relief from feeling frantic, stressed, all over the place and bring inner calm, centredness and relaxation– no matter in what situation you are in.
